Yes I am still black and still single… Who cares? I am so tired of the media making black women look desperate to have a man. Some women are single by choice. I can name off the top of my head a few who have no desire (with no lesbian tendencies) to be in a relationship. I am confused to why they feel we should be the topic of choice. It seems as if they are getting some type of pleasure mocking us because honestly, I don’t feel like the media even cares if we find the answers, they just enjoy making us look foolish and desperate.
I am tired of Steve Harvey going around promoting this non-sense. He is pissing me off because I feel he is the ring leader in all of this. Who told him to write a book? I want to know what made him feel he has any answers on the subject? I wouldn’t dare read a book written by him, telling me how to find a man. Honey, why are we trying to find men, why can’t we all just meet halfway. Why do they make it look like it’s the womans fault she is single? It’s all negative every time they do these discussions.
Then you got Sherri Shepherd ol big tittie a** deciding she wants to have a voice in it. Girl why you don’t say anything on the show you get paid to talk on… #bishimwaitingforyoutostoplettingelizabethpunkyou Y’all I am beyond annoyed because this topic should be left alone. Jacque should know better. Sherri is simple so this is expected from her but Jacque should not have agreed to this. The stupid part is everyone they are asking are STILL SINGLE. You can’t ask single people WHY they are still single. The panel is un-balanced.
The worst part is the panel all felt they were saying something remarkable. You had Steve thinking he was saying something so profound when he opened his mouth. I am just done with this subject because it’s beating a dead horse with a stick for nothing. I want to know, how did we even get on this subject? Why do they feel our standards are too high? Why is Steve talking about we are ignoring these men that have potential? I just want to know what gives people the audacity to sum all black women up into one group.
Black women being single is nothing new. Stop acting like this is a huge epidemic. The answer will never be found on an open forum because the answer is inside each individual woman. We are all different which means there are several DIFFERENT reasons why we are single. Stop making this discussion one-sided. If there are single women out there then that means there are single men. DUH! So if you gonna do this then ask why are relationships in general failing? Why are people in general settling? Do one for the men but stop pointing us out. Ugh I am done with this non-sense.
Oh yeah and ladies don’t fall into this trap of believing any of this. I noticed a lot of women not only buying into what was being said but blaming themselves for being alone. It’s okay to be by yourself and have goals. Don’t let Steve and no one else tell you other wise. Oh and let me talk about Jacque real quick. I was gonna let her slide but let me bust her behind. Some woman said that she saw no problem being 32 and single. Jacque’s rebuttal was, “yeah but when you get my age, you will.” (Not those exact words but you get it.) Age has nothing to do with it.
Okay for real…
Y’all I’m like one of those women who keep saying she is done but never stops talking. LOL