If Halle and Stacey Can’t Keep A Man…


I still sure can. Halle and Stacey have nothing to do with me having a man. Recently, Halle has been on the blogs for her break up with the father of her child, Gabriel Aubry. A few women felt as if Halle couldn’t stay in a relationship then there was no hope for the rest of us… Honey, […]

Hurt Parents Sometimes Produce Hurt Children


This statement is proving to be true everyday. A lot of parents have deep down buried hurt from their childhoods, relationships and many other sources. This hurt is being passed on to their children and sadly the cycle just keeps going. But I am determined to make it stop. Let me tell you about this past […]

Lets Talk About Pep!!


Can I just say I enjoyed VH1 new show about Pepa Denton. You may remember Pepa from the rap duo “Salt and Pepa”. Her and Salt recently did a show on VH1, I can’t remember the name and I watched but it wasn’t nearly as good as I think this will be. I was so proud that for […]

UGGGGHHHHHHH Not Again!!!!


I swear you females (wordpress keep telling me to put women but women don’t do these type of things) are gonna make me punch each one of you in the face. So today or rather yesterday I was going through my daily blogs and ran across a particular post that just made my blood boil. The young woman decided […]

Hmph She Got Y’all Together!!!


Yes, I know these letters are old but it fits with what I am doing. So read them leave your thoughts and expect my rebuttle in the coming week. Dear jamie: i’m sorry but i would like to challenge some of your black male readers. I am a white female who is engaged to a black male-good-looking, educated […]

Why Are Black Women Single???


I often ponder this question. Mainly because I am a black, SINGLE, and a woman (by choice, fear and no one interest me). I posted this as my daily twitter question and the responses were good. Here are a few… 1.) because they r not putting up with bs 2.) I think our culture has accepted the baby […]

Compromising Me for You!!


Have you ever asked yourself, “Why am I giving all of me and not getting anything in return?” I think almost everybody in the world has asked that question at least once. If you haven’t, good for you. Sometimes, relationships can take a lot from you. Whether good or bad. And sometimes compromising for love […]

Do You Keep Him Even Though He Cheated?


This question has puzzled the minds of many women and some men for ages. Everyone has an opinion about it and they all have good reasoning about why they would leave or stay. Now of course, I asked it as a twitter question and most said they would bounce. I actually didn’t have anyone say that […]