Our Belief System Is Different…


I am (having this conversation) speaking with a friend about relationships, religion and beliefs. So to brief you on it, here is the dilemma. They have different religious views and they feel differently about sex. Now both have A religion but not the same one. He feels that sex before marriage is not right. Which […]

The Friendship Market


Last night I was walking around my apartment thinking about all the friendships I have invested in. I am sure we all have had some Good, Neutral and Bad investments in the friend market. I know I have and the older I get, the more I learn how to pick and choose which stock will make my investments grow and […]

If Halle and Stacey Can’t Keep A Man…


I still sure can. Halle and Stacey have nothing to do with me having a man. Recently, Halle has been on the blogs for her break up with the father of her child, Gabriel Aubry. A few women felt as if Halle couldn’t stay in a relationship then there was no hope for the rest of us… Honey, […]

Hurt Parents Sometimes Produce Hurt Children


This statement is proving to be true everyday. A lot of parents have deep down buried hurt from their childhoods, relationships and many other sources. This hurt is being passed on to their children and sadly the cycle just keeps going. But I am determined to make it stop. Let me tell you about this past […]

Lets Talk About Pep!!


Can I just say I enjoyed VH1 new show about Pepa Denton. You may remember Pepa from the rap duo “Salt and Pepa”. Her and Salt recently did a show on VH1, I can’t remember the name and I watched but it wasn’t nearly as good as I think this will be. I was so proud that for […]

Hmph She Got Y’all Together Part 2


So remember I said I would respond to the letter? Well here goes. I was so annoyed when reading her letter. Even though it was short, it did a lot of damage to my community. I am sure a few black women shrugged it off but I know some may have taken it seriously. First […]

UGGGGHHHHHHH Not Again!!!!


I swear you females (wordpress keep telling me to put women but women don’t do these type of things) are gonna make me punch each one of you in the face. So today or rather yesterday I was going through my daily blogs and ran across a particular post that just made my blood boil. The young woman decided […]