Dear John Mayer


Mr. Mayer I know this letter is coming a little late.I felt that maybe I should address you and give you my thoughts and feelings on your “slip up”. I wasn’t too offended by what you said. You see, I understood what you were “trying” to say, yet your choice of words showed that as […]

Hmph She Got Y’all Together Part 2


So remember I said I would respond to the letter? Well here goes. I was so annoyed when reading her letter. Even though it was short, it did a lot of damage to my community. I am sure a few black women shrugged it off but I know some may have taken it seriously. First […]

Hmph She Got Y’all Together!!!


Yes, I know these letters are old but it fits with what I am doing. So read them leave your thoughts and expect my rebuttle in the coming week. Dear jamie: i’m sorry but i would like to challenge some of your black male readers. I am a white female who is engaged to a black male-good-looking, educated […]

Why Are Black Women Single???


I often ponder this question. Mainly because I am a black, SINGLE, and a woman (by choice, fear and no one interest me). I posted this as my daily twitter question and the responses were good. Here are a few… 1.) because they r not putting up with bs 2.) I think our culture has accepted the baby […]